Monday, August 29, 2011

I am Not My Physical Body

I am not my physical body, ... I am not my physical body, ... I am not...  I repeated these words constantly in my mind when I received a second total hip replacement this past Monday.  It turned out to be the best preparation I could make.  Everything went smoothly, and I am recovering now at home.

Since several years now I have been dealing with osteo-arthritis.  I first noticed that I had a weakness in my right hip joint.  I often had to drag my leg, lifting it into the car or bed.  I fought with all my heart and was looking for alternative approaches to prevent surgery.    After I outgrew all of my and others resources, I agreed on having surgery on the right hip.  In the meantime, the left hip also became bone-on-bone.

For most of my life my body has been very healthy and I didn’t have many problems.  I always believed that I am responsible for my health and well-being.  That’s why I studied about health, nutrition, and other alternative approaches to care for the body.  That was also the reason for my disappointment when I started to have all these joint problems.  I am aware that there underlying emotional reasons when we encounter physical troubles.  Then I came across the Emotion Code  by Dr. Bradley Nelson  I was able to release tons of emotional baggage, many of them related to finding my true identity.  It helped me enough to recover very well from the first surgery.  Since the left hip was also very worn out, I decided to have it replaced as well.  It took the support of my family and friends and a very skilled surgeon to get me through it all.

But the best help came from above, from my heavenly father, who gave me the courage and faith to understand that I am not my physical body.  If you were to see all the metal in my hips (the x-ray machine reveals it all) I am not that structurally support skeleton, I am still me.  I am a spiritual being, who is living temporarily in this physical world, learning to be responsible for myself and my lineage.  I had to learn to forgive myself for my internal behavior and many wrong habits.  I had to learn not to identify myself with my feelings or thoughts, and to experience the NOW as my only state of being.

“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today? Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present.”
~ Eleanor Roosevelt

I am on my way of recovery, again.  Isn’t it wonderful, how many times we can make a new beginning in life?

Monday, August 22, 2011

Exploring Human Potential

I have heard from different sources that man only uses about 5% of his full potential.  Hank Wesselman, Ph.D. says in his “The Journey to the Sacred Garden” that man is primed to experience the full expression of the human potential.  If we are destined to reach our 100% capabilities what is holding us back?


 Man has struggled throughout human history to overcome ignorance.  Knowledge comes in different forms: intellectual, emotional, spiritual, and mental.  Some scientists believe that man has advanced more in the last 100 years than in the past. We humans have always been creative, seen in the ancient cultures like the Egyptian and Greek architecture, and European art such as music, paintings and literature.  The Western World has been engaged in many discoveries, exploration, and inventions.


Let’s explore some of the aspects of raising the human potential:

*The Flynn Effect 

The Flynn effect is a theory based on observations that IQ (intelligence quotient) has changed over time.  This effect crosses cultures and has been scored by James R. Flynn over several generations.  It is remarkable how young people are more intelligent today and quickly understand new ideas and concepts.  This is most obvious in regards to electronics and other gadgets.  James Flynn is a political scientist from New Zealand.  He is not the only one but has the support of other psychologists and academicians.

“The greatest discovery of the 19th century was not in the realm of the physical sciences, but the power of the subconscious mind touched by faith. Any individual can tap into an eternal reservoir of power that will enable them to overcome any problem that may arise. All weaknesses can be overcome, bodily healing, financial independence, spiritual awakening, and prosperity beyond your wildest dreams. This is the superstructure of happiness.”
~ William James, Harvard Psychologist, the Father of American Psychology

 *Emotional Intelligence

Daniel Goleman tells us that emotional intelligence is a different kind of intelligence.  It is the ability to identify, use, understand, and manage our emotions in a positive and constructive way.  He calls this intelligence “heart smart,” not just “head smart.”  He encourages us to learn EQ (emotional intelligence) and develop it throughout our lives.  Learning EQ helps deal with stress, accept emotions, develop relationships, communicate better, have fun with humor, and overcome conflict with confidence.

Mr. Goleman describes five necessary emotional skills which everybody can learn:
* Emotional intelligence (EQ) skill 1: The ability to quickly reduce stress.
* Emotional intelligence (EQ) skill 2: The ability to recognize and manage your emotions.
* Emotional intelligence (EQ) skill 3: The ability to connect with others using nonverbal communication.
* Emotional intelligence (EQ) skill 4: The ability to use humor and play to deal with challenges.
* Emotional intelligence (EQ) skill 5: The ability to resolve conflicts positively and with confidence.


 *Common Sense

Common sense is often underestimated.  It is the combination of both intellectual and emotional intelligence.  Mostly it is based on our own experiences. 

As the saying goes: “Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.”

Aristotle thought that the common sense is an actual power of inner sensation, as opposed to the five physical senses.  Considering that we not only have these 5 physical senses of hearing, seeing, smelling, tasting, and touching, but those same senses are present in the spiritual realm, he was way ahead of his time.  Only man owns this dual characteristic of internal and external.

 *Intuition 

 Intuition is the capacity to gain knowledge without reasoning.  Contrary to animals which are driven by instinct, man can learn to look inside (the word intuition come from the Latin word for intueri which mean look inside) and discover the super-national or subconscious which connects us to the higher source, God.  The HumanPotential Movement (HPM) has made use of this discovery.  HPM has developed in the 1960s, following the ideas that all people have extraordinary potential. 

 "Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid."
~
Albert Einstein, German-born scientist (1879-1955)



 Already in 1943, Abraham Maslow wrote about the Hierarchy of Human Needs. Once our basic needs are fulfilled, man is destined to advance into the higher realms, seeking his full potential.  In order to do this, man needs to be free, free to pursue happiness.


Therefore, Mr. Flynn’s study is valuable.  Man has grown in intelligence and wisdom because he is destined to achieve his highest potential.


We are living now in an extraordinary time of human history where we can take part of this personal transformation.  Intellectual intelligence and emotional intelligence, left-brain thinking and right-brain feeling, internal and external have to become one.  But humans can’t figure this out by themselves.  We need the guidance and inspiration of the higher source which is God, our heavenly parent.  He is the author of knowledge, wisdom, intelligence, emotions, and most of all love.  Only love can truly transform us.  This has been the missing link throughout human history.  We need the love of our heavenly parent to nurture us and raise our human consciousness.


Monday, August 15, 2011

Traveling Through the American Heartland

It has become a yearly tradition to travel to grandpa’s house in Minnesota.  The Midwest region of the United States of America is known as the “American Heartland.”  The Heartland’s primary role for the rest of the country is manufacturing and farming.  We saw mostly farming since we avoid driving through the big cities. 
This past weekend we got our reliable Venture van ready to make the 1,000 mile trek.  Starting in Cincinnati, Ohio, we drove west on I-74 through Indiana, then Illinois, Wisconsin, and arriving in Minnesota a day later.  

How do you bring excitement to a trip which consists of bathroom stops, lunch breaks and one sleep-over?  We know the route very well, and met with only a few constructions and detours.   When we were driving through the cornfields of Illinois I couldn’t help but think of the farmers which provide our food and fill our grocery stores.  I got into a deep state of gratitude for their tireless labor and dedication.  They are certainly not on the job 9-5, five days a week.  Especially, during the summer and during harvest season, they work deep into the night and bring in the crops.
Maybe we should start a campaign with green ribbons for their service for the country.  Most people, shopping in the cities’ grocery stores have no thoughts of were their food is coming from.  The life on the farm is a life of sacrifice and often of uncertainty, because the harvest depends on so many factors.  One of them being the weather, the other the general market prices, and last but not least the economy.  But there are so many rewards for farm life.  The greatest being, at least from my perspective, that it is a family business.  In fact, the reason that in the past farmers had lots of children was that they had more hands to do the farm work.


From the website America’s Heartland I learned some interesting facts about corn:
Corn or maize is a grain and not a vegetable. It is grown around the world as one of the most widely used food staples.  It is processed into oil, corn syrup, corn starch, and flour.  Its other important use is as animal feed and can also be transformed into industrial products such as ethanol and polyactic acid (PLA).  The USA is the largest corn producer in the world, farming about 50% of the world’s harvest. 

Here are some fun facts about corn:
* There are about 800 kernels in 16 rows on each ear of corn.
* The corncob (ear) is actually part of the corn plant's flower.
* The main ingredient in most dry pet food is corn.

Sweet corn, feed corn, and pop corn require different seeds.  Today, farmers have developed many hybrid forms which give bigger and better yields.  Unfortunately, some people are allergic to corn.

Through working together as a family, the parents can teach their children hands-on values.  The unity of a family can produce not only a “great crop” but also healthy relationships.  It is in the family that children learn to love, the give, and to be selfless.  So the heartland is truly the breading-ground for American values.
Deep in my thoughts, the landscape changed, and we arrived at the tourist country of the Wisconsin Dells.  Exit after exit big bill boards enticed us to visit the water slides and boat rides.  All of this amusement is also provided for family fun.  This time we only had one thing in mind, getting to grandpa’s home. 
The best thing for us: our daughter and her husband came from Germany, and we traveled together as a family.  That was entertainment enough and exciting news for us: we are going to be grandparents.  Wherever we went to visit, grandpa came along, sharing lunches (dinners) and dinners (suppers) with the rest of the extended family.  We had a lot of fun and laughed out loud, isn’t that relaxing?

Monday, August 8, 2011

Socialism Does Not Work

It’s been 50 years since my family left East-Germany.  I am reminded again of this event, since the date of the building of the Berlin Wall and the stronger reinforcement of the demarcation line between East- and West-Germany is nearing its 50th anniversary this coming August 13, 2011.  Any country which has to build a wall or fences around themselves to keep their people in, does not work because it doesn’t give its citizen freedom.  Actually, the government of East-Germany claimed at that time, that they had to build the wall to keep the anti-socialists OUT.  How is that for logic?


What is socialism? According to Wikipedia, socialism is an economic system in which the means of production are publicly or commonly owned and controlled cooperatively, or a political philosophy advocating such a system.  Webster’s New World Dictionary explains it as “any of various theories or systems of the ownership and operation of the means of production and distribution by society or the community rather than private individuals, with all members of the society sharing in the work and the products.” These very words explain why socialism does not work because it is based on a theory which leaves out the most important factor of human nature.  Humans were created by God as their parent to live a spiritual live here on earth inquiring character and experience relationships of love.  Socialism as proposed by Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels never allowed a belief in a creator, a loving God who has a plan and purpose for his children.


Years ago, before the fall of communism, Reverend Sun Myung Moon played a major role in the downfall of communism.


His Critique and Counterproposal to Communism was the very background of President Ronald Reagan’s declaration: “Mr. Gorbachev tear down this wall.”





"Now it doesn't require expropriation or confiscation of private property or business to impose socialism on a people. What does it mean whether you hold the deed or the title to your business or property if the government holds the power of life and death over that business or property? Our natural, unalienable rights are now considered to be a dispensation of government, and freedom has never been so fragile, so close to slipping from our grasp as it is at this moment."
~ Ronald Reagan

I am not a politician, I don’t even like politics.  One thing I don’t understand is that the Soviet Union has been dissolved and many other communist countries in Europe.  Why on earth people are still proclaiming socialism as a form of government, I don’t have a clue.  As Milton Friedman acknowledged, socialism is a force. Mr. Friedman was awarded the Nobel Prize Economics in 1976.
Mr. Friedman wrote in 1989:
"What is socialism?  In its purest form, socialism is government ownership and control of the means of production.  Ownership of anything implies the right to the income produced by that thing."

All means of production in the United States – people, land, machines, buildings, etc. – produce our national income.  Spending by government currently amounts to about 45% of national income.  By that test, government owns 45% of the means of production that produce the national income.  The U.S. is now 45% socialist.
Source: The Clever Dude


The problem with socialism is that you eventually will run out of other people’s money.
~ Milton Friedman (American Economist, July 31, 1912 – November 16, 2006


Don’t we learn from history?  Why are we giving awards and acknowledge great thinkers for their innovative thoughts and suggestions but don’t apply them in real life?  Now more than ever, we need people to step up in leadership with real experience and a vision of what is good and true for human kind.  Let’s put the blame game behind and support those leaders who have results to prove their leadership to reform our economy, our education, and our government.  I support those leaders who are humble enough to admit that we need the help from the almighty God.



Monday, August 1, 2011

National Day for Prayer and Fasting - August 6, 2011

Our country has a long history of national days for prayer and fasting.  Ever since the First Continental Congress gathered in 1775, our leaders have come together to seek the guidance of our heavenly father.  At the draft of the Constitution, Benjamin Franklin declared, “The longer I live, the more convincing proofs I see of this truth: that God governs in the affairs of men.” 
When a country is in trouble, the first thing to do is to ask for God’s guidance.  During the Civil War, President Abraham Lincoln proclaimed, “It behooves us … to humble ourselves before the offended Power, to confess our national sins, and to pray to the God that made us.”  Again, during WWII, President Franklin D. Roosevelt led the nation in prayer, “As we rise each new day and again when each day is spent, let words of prayer be on our lips, invoking Thy help to our efforts.”

It doesn’t matter who is calling for the day of prayer and fasting, as long as we are praying together.  In this political correct time, nobody is allowed to step on anybody’s toes, which often leads to in-actions.  I support Governor Rick Perry of Texas  and the American Family Association for initiating the National Day of Prayer and Fasting on August 6, 2011.  Even though, I want be able to travel to Texas, I will participate at home in the ritual.

"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing."
~ Edmund Burke, English statesman and author

Here is the link where you can register, if you want to participate:
http://theresponseusa.com.
Even if you cannot travel to Texas, you can participate at home.
Governor Rick Perry declared the date a “day of prayer and fasting for our nation’s challenges.”  He goes on saying, “America is in crisis.  We have been besieged by financial debt terrorism, and a multitude of natural disasters.”  The governor personally invited all other 49 governors to participate in the day.
Obviously, there will be opposition for that event.  Anytime righteous people stand up there will be disagreement.  But this is a free country, so let the fight begin.   I don't think the issues are division between church and state.  This is the time where good and evil is separating like oil and water.

Proclamation Appointing a National Fast Day
Washington, D.C.
March 30, 1863


A Proclamation.

Whereas, the Senate of the United States, devoutly recognizing the Supreme Authority and just Government of Almighty God, in all the affairs of men and of nations, has, by a resolution, requested the President to designate and set apart a day for National prayer and humiliation.

Signed: Abraham Lincoln, President of the United States of America

This video has been added 2 days after the event on August 8, 2011:
 

Monday, July 25, 2011

Everybody Can Learn

There are different learning styles.  Some people learn better through hearing (auditory), some through seeing (visual), and others like to experience things first hand.  There are also different ways to communicate like it is expressed in the Johari window.  A Johari window is a cognitive psychological tool created by Joseph Luft and Harry Ingham in 1955 in the United States, used to help people better understand their interpersonal communication and relationships. It is used primarily in self-help groups and corporate settings as a learning exercise.

Disregarding these personal approaches we go through a process which many educators are familiar with which is called the “Conscious Competence Learning Cycle (CCLC).

The stages of learning have first been developed by Noel Burch in the 1970s while he was designing a new workbook for Teacher Effective Training (TET).  Some people believe that it is originated by Abraham Maslow.

I found it fascinating because I have been thinking a lot how to access the subconscious mind and how we can break barriers of resistance.  The CCLC is useful to know about when we want to learn a new skill or change a habit.

We all are aware how difficult it is to overcome ignorance and resistance.  Sigmund Freud  first introduced us to the idea of an unconscious mind.  This discovery helped educators to put together this model for learning:

Stage 1 - Unconscious Incompetence

We don’t know what we don’t know.”

At this stage we are in a state of blissful ignorance. We have a complete lack of knowledge and skills in the subject in question. On top of this, we are unaware of our lack of skills, and our confidence will therefore exceed our abilities.

 --> There is a crucial point when we come out of the unconscious realm – we face a lot of resistance from the ego.  The first step to break this resistance is to accept and be aware of this ignorance.  We need a lot of encouragement and support from others.  We also need to be humble because we need the help of others who are more experienced.  At this point we don’t want to listen to our mind, rather follow your heart.

Stage 2 – Conscious Incompetence

"We know that we don't know."

At this stage we find that there are skills we need to learn, and it may come as a shock to find that there are others who are far more competent than we are.

As we realize this, our confidence drops, and we go through an uncomfortable period as we learn these new skills.

With persistence and repetition we will enter the next stage.

Stage 3 – Conscious Competence

"We know that we know."

At this stage we are acquire the new skills and knowledge. We put our learning into practice and we gain confidence in carrying out the tasks or jobs involved.

We are still concentrating on the performance of these activities, but as we gain more practice and experience, the exercising of these skills becomes increasingly automatic.

Stage 4 – Unconscious Competence

"We don't know that we know – everything becomes so easy."

At this stage our new skills are now habits, and we perform the task and exercise our skills without conscious effort – we are functioning “on-auto-pilot” and thus with ease. We are now at the peak of our confidence and ability and the new skill become our second nature.

The benefit of knowing these four stages is that it can help us in all areas of learning: new skills, new habits, and any changes we need to make in life.

“There are known knowns; there are things we know we know.  We also know there are known unknowns; that is to say we know there are some things we do not know.  But there are also unknown unknows – the ones we don’t know we don’t know.”
~ Donald Rumsfeld, former United States Secretary of Defense

Let me give you an example:

*1 – When I first came to this country, I didn’t know any English besides: Hallo, thank you, come on and a few other words.  I thought all Americans were chewing gum and I couldn’t understand because people were talking too fast.  I tried to repeat what people were saying, only to be laughed at many times.

*2 – I determined to only speak English, no matter what, even to the point that I didn’t speak at all.  I was afraid to make mistakes, and was hesitant to express myself.

*3 – At this stage I was reading from billboards, newspapers, and made simple sentences just like kids.  Nothing complicated yet, just repeating what I heard others say.

*4 – Then, one night I started dreaming in English.  From then on, I could speak more freely, and felt comfortable to have small conversations.  It took about 4-6 months but I basically learned English during that time.

Now I feel more comfortable to speak in English.  When I talk to my family, or write letters, I have to sometimes use a dictionary.

This is just one example how we can learn new skills, change habits, or just plainly expand ourselves.  When we go from unconscious incompetence to unconscious competence, knowing these steps, we can pace ourselves better and stay on course, rather than listen to the internal critical voice and get discouraged.


Monday, July 18, 2011

National Parents' Day 2011

National Parents' Day is celebrated in the United States on the 4th Sunday of July each year.  It is a special day to honor our parents and to celebrate the family structure and family values.  The role of the parents is crucial for the health and wellbeing of the children as well as the society.

Parents’ Day was first established in 1994 when then President Bill Clinton signed a congressional resolution recognizing, uplifting, and supporting the role of parents in the rearing of children.

“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.”
~ 5th Commandment (Exodus 20:12) 

The first 4 commandments are describing our relationship with God.  5-10 commandment deals with our relationship among men.  It is no wonder that our relationship with our parents is addressed first.  They are the source of our life. 
The family is the corner stone of our society. More than any other force it shapes the attitude, the hopes, the ambitions, and the values of the child. And when the family collapses it is the children that are usually damaged. When it happens on a massive scale the community itself is crippled. So, unless we work to strengthen the family, to create conditions under which most parents will stay together, all the rest — schools, playgrounds, and public assistance, and private concern — will never be enough.” ~
President Lyndon Johnson, 36th President of the United States

Parents are the role models for the children.  It took a father and a mother to create a child, and it is no secret of what kind of effect parents have on their children.  Parents give their genes to their children, but more so, their childrearing will have influence for the rest of their lives.  It is not what the parents say and teach but rather how they conduct themselves in every day live.  The family is a natural institution for everyone involved to learn the important lessons of life.  With that the family is the school of love and the source of lineage.  Without the perpetuation of lineage there will be no continuation of mankind.


Reverend Sun Myung Moon, the founder of the unification church, calls the family the school of love.  God is our original parent.  Within the family we experience all different types of love: parental love, conjugal love (between husband and wife), children’s love and the love of brothers and sisters.  By learning these types of love, we can manifest all the different relationships and are prepared for life in the society, job market, and to be good citizens.
Let’s celebrate Parents’ Day this year by honoring our parents and most of all, our heavenly parent, God.