What
is the rule #6? -- Don’t take yourself
too seriously.
Here
is the story behind it. It is told by Rosamund
Stone Zander and Benjamin Zander in a book ”The Art of Possibility.”
Two
prime ministers are sitting in a room discussing affairs of state. Suddenly a
man bursts in, apoplectic with fury, shouting and stamping and banging his fist
on the desk. The resident prime minister admonishes him: “Peter,” he says,
“kindly remember Rule Number 6,” whereupon Peter is instantly restored to
complete calm, apologizes, and withdraws.
The
politicians return to their conversation, only to be interrupted yet again
twenty minutes later by a hysterical woman gesticulating wildly, her hair
flying. Again, the intruder is greeted with the words, “Marie, please remember
Rule Number 6.” Complete clam descends once more, and she too withdraws with a
bow and an apology.
When
the scene is repeated for a third time, the visiting prime minister addresses
his colleague. “My dear friend, I’ve seen many things in my life, but never
anything as remarkable as this. Would you be willing to share with me the
secret of Rule Number 6?” Very simple,” replies the resident prime minister.
“Rule Number 6 is ‘Don’t take yourself so g–damn seriously.’” “Ah,” says his
visitor that is a fine rule.”
After
a moment of pondering, he inquires, “And what, may I ask, are the other rules?”
“There
aren’t any.”
I
enjoy reading this book and especially got a kick out of the rule. For the past few days I thought a lot about
the warning not to take myself too serious.
Our ego always pushes itself into first place and wants to have the ‘last
word.’ When we can laugh at ourselves, it
becomes easier to defuse our emotions.
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