While
we were discussing the “Universe of Possibilities,” (chapter 2 of the Art of Possibility one
member of our small group discussion insisted that we need concrete goals to
achieve any kind of objective, not just have wishes and ideas and think of possibilities. He pointed out that we need to get out of the
“la-la” mentality and not only have good intentions. Being an engineer, he is used to laying out plans
clearly and realistic.
Not
until a few days later I became aware of a good explanation how goals and
possibility fit together. Here we go:
For
a goal to manifest we need a clear decision and a plan. The intention is created in the NOW while
goals are plans for the future. A goal
without the intention behind is an empty wish.
Although we know we can never truly be certain as to the exact outcome
of any event, we can be certain about our intent. The intention is the outcome you want to
achieve.
An
intention and a dream are two vastly different things. Watch as Cheryl
Richardson explains the difference between a "soul goal" and a
"head goal." Plus, find out what lesson Oprah learned about
intentions.
Goal
setting is warrior mentality – conquering and gaining step by step. Goals take time and discipline to be
accomplished. It is easy to get
discouraged and give up.
Intentions
are dreams and passion coming from the gut and more spiritual in nature. Children play-act their dreams and are
absorbed by a world of phantasy which adults often don’t understand.
Goals
are mechanic and realistic; intentions are creative and make goals
possible. The difference is in “HOW” –
allowing the process be determined by the universe by surrendering the outcome. We are not in control on how it should happen
but BEING certain that it will happen.
Allow the magic of the universe to surprise us. Create the definite intention for the outcome
and surrender the process to the universe.
Intentions come from the heart, goals come from the head.
Dr.Wayne Dyer wrote a book “The Power of Intention:”
“Inch
by inch, life's a cinch. Yard by yard, life's hard.”
~
John Bytheway
In
my own life I have made plans and have created goals which ended very often
after a short time because I became discouraged or ‘somebody’ talked me out of
it. I know now that with a well-defined
intention I can build up my way to achieve any goal.